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made for the journey — honoring the beauty, the mess, and the meaning in it all.
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The Village We Weren’t Meant to Live Without
Motherhood was never meant to be done alone. 💛 From the friend who brings you a meal to the one who folds your laundry or takes your toddler to the...
The Village We Weren’t Meant to Live Without
Motherhood was never meant to be done alone. 💛 From the friend who brings you a meal to the one who folds your laundry or takes your toddler to the...
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Let’s Talk Cosleeping
This post shares my honest journey into cosleeping — something I never planned to do when I was pregnant. I walk through how reflux and food intolerances changed our sleep...
Let’s Talk Cosleeping
This post shares my honest journey into cosleeping — something I never planned to do when I was pregnant. I walk through how reflux and food intolerances changed our sleep...
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“Will I Ever Feel Enough?”
A reflection on anxiety, motherhood, and the lifelong journey of being at home in ourselves.
“Will I Ever Feel Enough?”
A reflection on anxiety, motherhood, and the lifelong journey of being at home in ourselves.
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The Sweetness of a Slow Morning
Sometimes the most ordinary mornings are the ones that ground us the most. Today was slow, quiet, and everything we needed.
The Sweetness of a Slow Morning
Sometimes the most ordinary mornings are the ones that ground us the most. Today was slow, quiet, and everything we needed.

Meet MaryKathryn
The heart behind Ever & Alder. Living in the Pacific Northwest, where the mountains meet the rivers, has taught me to embrace the beauty of change—how life is fleeting, ever-shifting, and deeply meaningful when we choose to be present.
I’m married to my best friend, the one who knows me fully and still chooses me every day. Together, we’ve built a life filled with love, laughter, and the little moments that matter most. Motherhood changed me—it made me want to slow down, to soak in the fleeting seasons, and to live with more intention.
Ever & Alder was born from that desire. “Ever” speaks to what lasts: love, presence, and the moments that shape us. “Alder” represents resilience and renewal, inspired by the trees that thrive in wild places, always reaching for the light.
This space is about finding beauty in the everyday—through motherhood, home, style, and simple rituals that make life feel full and intentional. I hope what you find here resonates with you and inspires you to create a life that feels just right for you.